Welcome to Live Spirited

Gain more self-awareness, Learn to manage distress, Build a more fulfilling life.

Whether you are navigating complex relationship dynamics, seeking deeper meaning beyond your achievements, or simply feeling a quiet dissatisfaction in a life that looks great on the outside, a life of contentment is within your reach. At Live Spirited, Adam Nanayakkara offers a confidential, supportive space to explore the paths to greater joy and authenticity. Drawing on a background in helping people achieve personal development, Adam has wide multicultural experience in interpersonal relations, home, and workplace issues.

Ready to take the next step toward a more spirited life?

Schedule a free introductory consultation.

About Adam Nanayakkara

Adam is a fully qualified Counsellor and a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), which is the leading regulatory body in the UK for Counsellors and Psychotherapists. He is also a registered member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). Adam holds an enhanced DBS certificate for adults and has worked with the NHS as an Honorary Counsellor at the Sussex Cancer Centre at the Royal Sussex County Hospital.

Adam has a BA in Psychology, a double-Masters, a Postgraduate Diploma in Psychosynthesis Counselling, and a Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology (CICS) Diploma in Clinical Sexology and Relationship therapy - which is accredited by the National Council of Integrative Psychotherapists (NCIP) and endorsed by Pink Therapy. He takes part in regular Continuing Professional Development (CPD) exceeding the BACP and COSRT annual membership requirements to ensure he has the capacity to practise safely, effectively and legally within the evolving scope of practice.

Usually based out of Brighton, Adam is of Sri Lankan origin and can also offer sessions in Sinhala.

My Approach

Working with you

For different reasons, many individuals find it daunting to seek help and psychological support. Through online counselling, I am able to support clients regardless of where they are, with sessions arranged at a weekly time that fits their life. The issues we could work on can range from general mood related issues to psychosexual oriented topics, some of which are listed under Focus areas and themes below.

As an empathic listener, I support clients to unpack current or upcoming challenges and see the potential that exists beyond the immediate worry. Sometimes people can find themselves in positions they are unequipped to deal with effectively, leading to varying or damaging coping strategies, which are as unique as each person’s story. Therefore, resources available for a general audience may not work, regardless of how much effort you put in, as they do not apply to you specifically.

Those with concerns beyond wealth often encounter unique expectations and pressures. I provide confidential and nuanced support for the emotional and psychological complexities that people and their intimate partners, can experience.


I have personally experienced my life change from psychotherapy and believe yours will too.

Psychotherapeutic Approach

I am qualified in Psychosynthesis counselling and also trained in the specialist field of sex and relationship therapy. I draw on several ways of working, tailoring my approach individually.

My approach is client-centred. I work with clients to identify and draw on inner resources, to empower them with tools to take action to live a more content life, moving beyond limiting beliefs or the presence of anxiety.

I will work with you according to your particular situation and need, which is more effective than attempting to figure things out on your own. Together we will identify healthier ways of managing emotions, anxiety and responding to situations, exploring them as an opportunity for personal growth.

Quality of counselling offered is of utmost importance to me and I abide by the BACP Code of Ethics and Professional Practice, and COSRT Code of Ethics and Practice. I practice online and you will need to have somewhere quiet and private for our sessions.

How can psychotherapy help?

People come to me for help with a wide range of issues. Here are a few of the more common themes that I can support through therapy:

Anxiety

Burdens of privilege

Burnout

Depression

Intrusive thoughts

Life transitions

Opposition to lifestyle choices

Racism / cultural marginalisation

Self esteem

Sex / intimate partner related

Spiritual Emergence

Stress

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How Do I Start Therapy?

Book Your Free Introductory Consultation

This confidential 25-minute chat is for us to meet online so you can decide whether you would like to proceed with therapy. During this consultation we can discuss what brings you to counselling, how we may work together and answer any questions you may have – schedule an appointment here


Pre-therapy assessment

I will email you an assessment and pre-therapy documents, which includes our agreement for you to fill and return. Once I have received your signed documents, you can pay for and schedule your first session so we can start our work together.


Begin Therapy

Once we start, you can choose a time slot for a minimum of six weekly sessions, or as needed. The overall length of therapy is open-ended and will vary depending on your needs.

Fees

I offer a free, no-obligations 25 minute introductory online consultation for prospective clients – please get in touch with your query and availability.

Day time sessions (before 5:30pm)

- The standard fee for each 50 minute session is £90 payable by bank transfer at least 3 days in advance.

- A block of 6 sessions is discounted to £480.

Evening sessions (after 5:30pm)

- The standard fee for each 50 minute session is £120 payable by bank transfer at least 3 days in advance.

- A block of 6 sessions is discounted to £670.


FAQs

How do I start consultation with you?

I offer a free no-obligations 25 minute introductory online consultation for prospective clients to decide whether you would like to proceed with therapy. During this consultation we can discuss what brings you to counselling, how we may work together and answer any questions you may have – please fill in the form with your query. You do not need to decide whether to proceed with therapy during the introductory consultation and can notify me via email after our chat if that is more comfortable.

If you would like to proceed, I will send you a pre-therapy assessment and other needed documents, which includes our agreement for you to fill and return. While this sounds like a lot, these stages are all important to make sure that your therapy with me is appropriate and safe. I have also found this maximises use of our time, so we can focus on talking about the presenting issues during our sessions.

Once I have received your signed documents, you can schedule a weekly time slot so we can start our work together.

How long will I need therapy?

If we decide to work together, you will commit to a minimum of six sessions as an ongoing weekly appointment. We will review before the sixth session whether you have a need to continue. The overall length of counselling is open-ended and varies for each individual. It could be contained within the six sessions at a minimum or span several years, depending on client-centred needs.

Why do you offer only online counselling? Isn’t in-person counselling better?

There are advantages and disadvantages of both approaches. I have offered in-person therapy in the past. Currently, I like the flexibility and possibility of reaching a much wider audience online. Through online counselling, I am able to support clients regardless of where they are, with sessions arranged at a weekly time that fits their life. From a client perspective, working online with someone professionally registered and proficient could be preferable than in person from a limited pool of therapists available locally. I have written a blog post on this topic, which can be found here.

How do you ensure I receive good quality counselling?

Quality of counselling offered is of utmost importance to me and I abide by the Code of Ethics and Professional Practice of both BACP and COSRT. Regular clinical supervision is carried out to ensure standards, enhance quality, advance learning, stimulate creativity, and support the sustainability and resilience of the work being undertaken. During supervision, I may talk about our work together but no personal identifying information will be shared.

I take part in regular Continuing Professional Development (CPD) exceeding BACP and COSRT annual membership requirements to ensure I have the capacity to practise safely, effectively and legally within the evolving scope of practice.

Can I cancel a session?

Yes, you can cancel your session with a week’s notice or more. If you cancel with less than 3 days you will be charged full session rate, unless in exceptional circumstances such as a medical emergency. However, repetitive patterns of cancellation (regardless of payment for the sessions) are a hindrance to your progression and we will have to discuss how to continue if that becomes a factor.

What if I feel a resistance to therapy?

The relationship between the therapist and the client is crucial for the therapeutic process. Sometimes a client may experience challenging emotions during therapy and may feel misunderstood or uncomfortable discussing further. If this happens, it would be beneficial for you to share those feelings with me, so we have an opportunity to work through them without judgement. The feelings you experience within the therapeutic relationship can sometimes reflect challenges in life outside the counselling space - talking them through safely can be rewarding, deepening our mutual understanding and leading to personal growth.

How will I access online counselling?

I will send you a link to a secure online platform for you to access. You will need to have somewhere quiet and private for the session. Psychotherapy cannot take place in an open or outdoor setting such as a park or on public transport, or with another person in the room. Please note that for Health and Safety reasons, children are not permitted to be in the room for your session and children aged 9 or under must not be left unsupervised during your session. If applicable, childcare arrangements will need to be made for at least the duration of the session.

At the time of each scheduled session, you simply need to click on the link to access the session.

Are the sessions recorded?

No. Due to confidentiality, recording of sessions by clients is prohibited as well. As all sessions are confidential, whatever we discuss remains between us. During supervision, which is carried out to ensure standards and enhance quality, I may talk about our work together but no personal identifying information will be shared.

Please check my Privacy Policy to see how I protect and manage your data.

What if we experience connection problems?

Please note that there might be some interruptions due to technology, which I will do my best to avoid but maybe inevitable due to issues such as connection problems. If this becomes a significant factor, we can discuss whether to reschedule the session at your convenience. If technological problems prevent us from connecting online, I will email you as soon as possible to arrange a solution.

“When you can’t go back, the best way is moving forward.”

- Paulo Coelho, from The Alchemist

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Get in touch

Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how I work, or to arrange an introductory online consultation. This enables us to discuss the reasons you are thinking of coming to therapy, whether it could be helpful for you and whether I am the right therapist to help.

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